Why Kids Tattle and What To Do About It
By: Elaine M. Gibson
When we bring an adult perspective to this process of tattling, or telling on someone, we fail to understand what is going on for the tattler. As adults, we aren’t sure what to do about tattling and we convey our ambiguity to our children.
On one hand, we USE the information the child gives us to correct another child’s behavior or prevent damage to people and property.
But on the other hand, we tell the tattler that tattling is wrong. ‘Don’t be a tattletale.’
Children can’t cope with such double messages.
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